[公告]: 新学期,新征程! 欢迎新同学,新阶段新希望! [2017-10-7]
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 第 9141 条留言  昵称:  主题:不满
 留言内容:
  老师,今天看到你们的回复有些不满意,说实在话,感觉像是我们导员书记遇到问题踢皮球,要是愿意和他们说话还找你们?你一说就是思政的不是搞心理咨询的,那还说什么心灵交流,再说共产主义也要实现每个人身心健康和爱情吧,前面两个同学的爱情问题也是聊聊几句,思想政治不也与心理、爱情密切相关的,我听同学说这儿不错,看来见面不如闻名,我是不会来了
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗哈哈,让这位同学不满意了,不好意思的很呀! 关键是,术业有专攻,我们这里没有关于心理咨询专业的老师,因此实在不敢僭越……我们的心灵交流,仅仅在非心理咨询方面才跟大家说说知心话、聊聊天、交流交流思想、疏导疏导心情等,呵呵……希望理解哟?

    [回复]      222.73.129.* 留言者IP: 222.73.129.*    发表于:2017年10月8日19:16:49

 第 9140 条留言  昵称:  主题:问询
 留言内容:
  老师,你们是心理咨询室的老师吗?想心理咨询一
下,希望通过私信交流一下并能向前面详细而及时
回复,放假这几天老师回复的不是太及时哟。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,我们这里不进行心理咨询,这里是关于思想政治教育的网站,建议你到心理咨询室去,好不?

    [回复]      222.73.129.* 留言者IP: 222.73.129.*    发表于:2017年10月7日16:08:15

 第 9139 条留言  昵称:一诺千金  主题:爱而不得
 留言内容:
  老师 我和他认识已经
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,话没有说完哟?……

    [回复]      121.30.11.* 留言者IP: 121.30.11.*    发表于:2017年10月7日15:22:27

 第 9138 条留言  昵称:  主题:爱情
 留言内容:
  老师,我最近突然觉得我可能有点自
卑,毕业两年了,都没有找到合适的
对象。毕业两年,突然发现爱情好像
是奢侈品,因为大家都看什么身高,
工作,家庭情况等等。我个子比较
矮,也没机会接触男性,我希望可以
找一个互相喜欢的人。我害怕自己会
一直找不到感觉对的人,就这样孤独
一生。老师,是不是我的要求太高
呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我觉得,每个人都有自己的另一半在某个地方等着呢,不用自卑,真的,呵呵…… 努力工作,让自己越来越优秀,情况一定向着自己愿意的方向发展! 当然,必要的话,还是要发动亲友物色可能的另一半,自己也可以相相亲呀?祝福你!!

    [回复]      183.202.176.* 留言者IP: 183.202.176.*    发表于:2017年10月5日13:30:52

 第 9137 条留言  昵称:晶晶  主题:不想去上学
 留言内容:
  老师,放假的感觉真好,今年军训完回去,看到同
学上的都是好学校,不想再去明升m88博彩上了,想回
去复读,老师怎么办手续?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗至于怎么办手续?你可以咨询学校的学生处或直接咨询你的辅导员老师。 不过,我倒是想对你说,其实,来了明升m88博彩,也挺好,这是一个新的平台,人一生的发展取决于持续的努力,你可以好好学习,将来考研,考好学校的研究生,咱们学院学院每年的考研率也是挺高的。 其实可以不用复读耽误一年的时间的,你自己再想想?

    [回复]      119.97.180.* 留言者IP: 119.97.180.*    发表于:2017年10月2日14:57:14

 第 9136 条留言  昵称:  主题:接待
 留言内容:
  老师,你好,咱们学院的心理咨询室接待外面的人
吗?我是附近的学生,最近心理很郁闷,想开学找
心理咨询。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,你说的情况我还真不很清楚……不过,你可以到学校的王通教学楼四区,找到心理咨询室进行了解。祝福你!

    [回复]      119.254.210.* 留言者IP: 119.254.210.*    发表于:2017年10月1日19:53:14

 第 9135 条留言  昵称:李莉  主题:流泪
 留言内容:
  老师,今天回家还是有点气,鼓起勇气和妈妈说
了,我们母女俩抱在一起都哭了,妈妈把全家叫到
一起吃了饭,今天感觉哥哥懂事了好多,还主动给
我们夹菜,吃完饭聊到现在,感觉家里和谐了好
多,谢谢老师,祝您国庆节、中秋节快乐
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗爱需要沟通和理解,相信你的父母对你们都是爱的,只不过爱的方式不同而已,也不要过多地苛责他们,毕竟他们是你的亲人,你可以多多和他们沟通,你的成长也离不开他们。只要耐心地交流,让他们知道不能忽视你,同时让他们知道你的关心,一定有效果。家和万事兴,祝国庆中秋节快乐!

    [回复]      120.39.244.* 留言者IP: 120.39.244.*    发表于:2017年9月30日20:37:16

 第 9134 条留言  昵称:李莉  主题:偏心
 留言内容:
  哥哥比较叛逆,妈妈平时也比较关注他,我比较
乖,妈妈很少关注我,刚才下课妈妈打电话的时
候她还说哥哥生日快到了,想要通过我给他包个
微信红包,平时我几乎天天给她打电话,哥哥几
乎不打电话,我打电话给她的时候她也会说哥哥
怎么怎么样,很担心哥哥之类的。我感觉像是无
家可归一样(父亲不常在家),我想知道为什么
越调皮,越叛逆的人反而能得到更多的关注呢,
心里好失落!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗同学你好。哥哥几乎不打电话,一方面可能是他不懂得爱妈妈,另一方面可能想以这种方式与妈妈保持距离,因为母亲对儿子过多的爱也会让儿子有压力。无论是哪种原因,都会让妈妈感觉到儿子在远离她,因此她试图通过关心来拉回儿子,但结果却适得其反——儿子对妈妈更加冷漠。 你几乎天天给妈妈,想以这种跟哥哥不一样的方式唤醒母亲对你的爱,同时也防御着对母亲的愤怒。也许是潜在的愤怒无法在你与妈妈之间进行交流,使母女的距离拉远了。在我看来,你这种爱与恨的表达方式太间接了,如果能直接一些更好。比如说“希望妈妈能像爱哥哥一样爱我”,“明明我更关心你,为什么你总对哥哥更好,这让我觉得很难过”,这些直接的表达会让妈妈知道你的真实需要,更能唤回她的爱。能建设性地表达负面情感的关系都是健康的关系,因此,把你的失落说给你妈妈听吧。

    [回复]      120.39.244.* 留言者IP: 120.39.244.*    发表于:2017年9月29日14:52:21

 第 9133 条留言  昵称:木仙  主题:他比我矮
 留言内容:
  老师您好,这个问题有点尴尬很不好意思。我和
男友在一起很久大概快有三年了,之前感情也一
直很好。他对我很好,也像其他男生一样贪玩爱
闹,但是很上进,就是有一点他比我矮。我大概
164。他呢就差不多160左右。之前倒是没什么
也没感觉到,可是最近周围的声音都差不多是希
望自己的男朋友175+的,心里突然在意起来。吵
架也多了,但是我真的不想分开。希望老师解答
困惑。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!你说出心中的困扰很好。你和男友相处快三年了,他的身高也是客观事实,你想想当时为什么选择了他?现在吵架多了,身边的声音也影响了你对男友的评判。身高是给外人看的,情感是属于自己的,你要问问你内心真实的声音,如果你真的不想分开,那其他人的声音对你到底又会影响多少呢?如果你因近期吵架而进而挑剔他的身高,那么是否应该静下来好好分析争吵的原因、找到应对争吵的方法呢。每一段亲密关系在经历了“浪漫期”之后,都会经历一个“权利争斗期”,两个人遇到矛盾、分歧是很正常的,关键是两个人能正视矛盾,找到解决冲突的建设性方案,也许纠结的不是所谓的身高,而是情感上的分歧。如果需要,你也可来找我们爱情专家的樊老师聊聊,一起探索一下你们的亲密关系及其成长之路!谢谢!

    [回复]      1.82.228.* 留言者IP: 1.82.228.*    发表于:2017年9月29日13:22:35

 第 9132 条留言  昵称:游客甲  主题:求助
 留言内容:
  老师,我想问一下院里的张宇敏书记电话是
多少呀
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,私人电话不宜在网上发,你可以打院办电话0359-2090418,或发网站纪委书记信箱

    [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2017年9月28日13:16:14

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